A thank you

I just want to say thank you to everyone for their interest in my small contribution to this discussion about Dancing with the Stars. It will be interesting to see the impact that these discussion on and off air will have on the show.

I want to make one thing clear. It wasn’t the low scores I was most concerned with. It was the combination of factors, and how they combined.

The comments generally made to Gerrard have shown a nervousness that some awareness training would have assisted as some of my commenters have noted. Not to necessarily have softened the feedback, but to make the judges and the hosts more confident and therefore relaxed around the topic. Perfect time to do that was whey asked him on to the show.

Another major point is that he is making an effort to take the feedback that he is given on board and therefore give more feedback and judge accordingly. None of these celebrities are aiming to be professional dancers but to entertain, as is the judges role:

McKenney ….  said it was his duty to judge as he did and to “entertain the audience”.

My major critiscm however seems to have been largely missed and goes beyond the last show.. It is this. There is no need to remind the audience at the start of every show that he has an obvious disability. We know that. We get it. With one in 5 people in Australia estimated to be living with some form of disability and more recent figures indicated that the roughly the same percentage have a mental illness, the chances are good that Gerrard is not the only one on that stage and certainly not in the audience. The treatment he has recieved from the start has made me cringe every time and I am not the only one. The last thing needed is further embarrassment for the individuals or the broader community.

With those percentages set to increase, perhaps we need to move away from singling people out and focus on true intergration and dare I say; inclusion?

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Update on media behaving badly

As a follow up from yesterday’s post comes this outlining some of the fall out from “Dancing with the Stars”; including comment from Gerrard and his wife, Heather.

It includes some advice from Gerrard for the judges:

“I know I make a lot of mistakes as a dancer, and I’m happy for Todd and the judges to give me low scores – but offer me and those I’m trying to inspire some hope and guidance as well,” he said.

The article also reveals:

Gosens approached the three judges, Helen Richey, Mark Wilson and McKenney, after the show.

Oh to be a fly on the wall in that discussion.

To be fair, I must point out that the article also links to this article by a Tory Maquire which defends McKenney pointing out again that as we all have recognised, Gerrard can’t really dance. She goes on:

Since when have prime time reality television/light entertainment programs been about self-improvement and and passion?

There are such programs of course. Surely no-one would propose that a program such as MasterChef isn’t designed to improve interest in cooking (all those masterclasses and recipies on the website) or The Biggest Loser franchise with all sorts of fitness videos from the trainers and The Biggest Loser Club and food.

So he can’t dance in your opinion. Most can’t.

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media behaving badly

When Sol Trujillo accused Australians of being racist; we told him “Adios’ and proceeded to have a debate amongst ourselves nationally about whether we are in fact racist.

When The Chaser aired the  skit attempting to humourise the plight of kids with cancer and the charities supporting them; healthy debate (whatever the result) flared up about the use of black humor or humor generally in mainstream media.

Both these debates rightfully got media attention. Both of these debates, rightfully got attention and comment from the public and political and social leaders of the country. Both of these incidents, which perhaps started as silly playground-like antics, led to national discussions, of our character as a country.  A healthy self-examination important for a mature and maturing nation-state. A process by which we ask ourselves how tolerant or welcoming we really are of diversity.

Yet when an an accomplished, extraordinarily able man who has represented the nation proudly over many years and in many ways is publicly teased and effectively abused on commercial radio, the silence from leaders , and the public was deafening. Perhaps now that that comment has been followed up again  by Todd McKenney  making that “appalling” comment last night on television that was clearly both cruel and unnecessary, we can enter this debate.

Gerard Gossens, paralymian, adventurer and father is also one of the current batch of “stars” in Channel 7′s “Dancing with the Stars”.  Gerard is also congenitally blind.

As I was traveling into my last day at my most recent job working in disability policy, I switched to Mix 106.5 for 10 minutes of music. What I heard was 10 minutes of what might be considered disability- related vilification in the name of humor. Perhaps the most alarming element was that two of the djs that were being quite rude are now heavily involved in the show; one as a judge the other a host. Todd McKenney was heard remarking that he wanted the producers to “dress him up in funny clothes for” the entertainment value.

When I wrote this, the show was in the media spin cycle that precedes most Channel 7 shows. It was a novelty then. It is reality now. And it is clear that the judges are out of their depth, much more than Gerard.

Last night’s dancing by Gerard was probably far from technically correct. None of the dancing was. The objective of the exercise is not to create brilliant professional dancers, otherwise the stars would not be “keeping (their) day job”. I watched all the dancing last night and whatever stooping he might have done, he made more of an effort to dance during his solo than at least 2 of the other male stars (one of whom effectively slid on to the floor and clicked his fingers. It was always going to be hard for the male “stars” to do solos because of their role as partners to the girls.

If the judges are marking and commentating Gerard down because of the dancing then why did Adam Brand’s partner get congratulated last week for incorporating his singing into their performance? Either its about the dancing or its about the performance value.

I’m not a fan of online calls to have a different set of rules for Gerard and for the other contestants. That to me belies the inclusion that Channel 7 showed in inviting a man they knew to be vision impaired to take part in the show as a world first. That’s right they invited him. Then from week one they have consistently dressed him up figuratively and literately (silly glasses one week, chopping vegetables another), to entertain those of us who can see him and once again draw attention through slapstick to his disability perhaps as an explanation to his apparent “poor” dancing. I have my own disability, different from Gerard’s and I and others I know with both disabilities and senses of humor are insulted by the repetitive nature of this slapstick. I might yet take action.

I remember Derryn Hinch on this show one year who had the moves of an ironing board and didn’t seem to improve getting harsh but kind commentary from the same 3 judges about his entertainment value and lasting to the end. The problem this time is that the judges aren’t entertained. They are embarrassed and they are at a loss as to how to respond. They are used to a physical and visual lifestyle and profession. Gerard calls all that into question. Perhaps they can’t imagine his as a lifestyle and aren’t sure if they should. Despite the fact that McKenney was the primary insulter last night, all their marks and comments reflected at least tacit agreement with Todd’s assessment that it was “appalling” and that it was his time to go. The novelty’s clearly worn off the judges if not the public.

Is dance more than just about how it looks and the lines that are drawn by the legs, even on TV? Is it also about the communication between the dancers, between the dancer and the audience, the dancer and the music and even perhaps the dancer and themselves? Is it not about communication and dare I suggest fun?

Gerard has taken what little useful feedback the 3 judges have given him and run with it. He has improved. Even that was noted last night.

No don’t create special critera for him. Respect him without the slapstick. Judge them all on improvement and storytelling. Let their performance speak.  Provide them all with feedback they can use. The speed bump feedback was a good effort in that direction.

Maybe the producers want to jazz the format up and can’t swap partners and play silly games until after he is eliminated. Whatever the reason apologies are due. Not just to Gerard and Jessica but to the rest of us who are just trying to get on with life whatever we look like in dancing shoes.

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A blocked view

This is the first time I’ve heard of disability used as a reason to retain a million dollar view.

The disability community  and developers have an uneasy relationship at the best of times usually around useability and function rather than location per se. It is interseting that according to this piece:

At the request of the developer, the Minister for Planning, Kristina Keneally, has declared the two proposed towers a project of state significance and it will be the Department of Planning, not North Sydney Council, that will decide if they proceed.

The developers decision may not yield the result they seek.Ms Keneally is a former Minister for Disability Services,and a good one at that. So if she hears this argument in particular it might make a difference. Perhaps.

Of course Ms Moser and Niko are not the only ones complaining about the proposed towers which will block many highly prized, and priced views. It’s interesting that once again the media feels the need to lead with the ‘disabled” person as the easiest human interest angle and that folks with disability seem quite willing to fill this role more often than not.

As someone who has also had media coverage about her in the past as the human interest story I’m not saying it is automatically a bad thing. Just that it runs the risk of becoming the fall back position and doesn’t always serve to do a lot more than catch people somewhere between the hero, victim, or joker triangle, which leaves me at least wincing and wondering about equity and dignity. Sympathy is not always useful nor sought.

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The winner is … talent and, oh, a woman – TV & Radio – Entertainment

The winner is … talent and, oh, a woman – TV & Radio – Entertainment.

This article discussing the gender issues within the recent MasterChef Australia series is interesting. Don’t get me wrong here. I mean interesting in a good way.

Within the course of the last week of the show, as the women began to dominate in numbers and skill I was waiting for the usual gender related discussion — however minor. In recent series of other reality shows when a woman has won (after a man has won previous series), a mention of the gender of the winner has often been inevitable, however subtle and noble the intent. There was none of that, until the above from the host pointing out this very phenomena. I’m impressed, particularly if you look at the industry that Julie is now entering, which despite the female home cook trend is a male dominant industry at the professional level.

Could it be? Are we moving beyong the gender question in media just for the sake of it?

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handbag free to a good home

Okay. I was watching a television programme today about de-cluttering. It was Oprah and the subject was “what can you live without?” It focused on technology. Could two families, fairly typical ones live without their technology and their 60 hour weeks for a whole week and commit to do family activities for the week without distraction?

They showed a woman who had collected so many clothes, shoes and other paraphernalia and the compensation of the losing her husband in an accident over 10 years ago. She had de-cluttered and had boxes and boxes of clothes and shoes and whatever else removed from her house.

I have been talking about reinventing myself and simplifying my life for a long time now, and like many others have made several attempts with varying results. However, something in that program today spurred me on to look around and realise that I had way too much stuff. It prompted an energy shift in me. That energy shift resulted in my drafting the following e-mail: Continue reading

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Just words — a writing exercise

Lying straight. Holding what is left of shallow breathing and waiting. There are key noises to be listening for. A rhythm to the chaos. Markers for the unmeasurable. And an end. A final bang. An end. A stillness after the storm.

It will all start again. Tomorrow probably or if the young girl behaves she hopes, perhaps the day after.

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The day after the remains of the day — a review of sorts.

I’m not all that good at finishing books when I can’t stand the main character. This is particularly true is the same character holds the narrator role in the novel as well and its in first person. This time, I made it through and was rewarded.

Let me be clear here. I don’t have to love the character or agree with them. In fact many of my greatest reads have been when I needed to find the hook of compassion or respect deep in the book or look for an angle with a minor character. Not so this one. I have not seen the movie as yet. From memory it too was a prize winner.

I can see why this book won the Booker prize. The fact that Kazuo Ishiguro could write the butler, Stevens so well that I found myself getting frustrated with him in my dreams last night is testement to the good writing.

I was expecting an intensely English gentlemen story. I was looking forward to a tale of the English country-side and the English folk generally. I got small portions of both of these expectations as well as a large dose of a review of classism through the eyes of a man who doesn’t quite fit and doesn’t know why he doesn’t fit. It is a story of lost opportunities. It is sad.

Below is my review as posted on Shelfari

It was an interesting read. Stevens, the elderly butler is narrator and chief character. He is extremely aloof and quite arrogant, but does tell an interesting tale in his journey to the West Country of England in the 1950′s. His reminisces about his service to his prior master pre-occupy his travels as does his assessment of butlering generally (of which he is quiet harsh, except of his own.

It was a good read if a bit slow going at points and the various parts of the characters did not come together till quite late, but when they did it all fitted nicely

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la vie passionnée

In one line, she challenged me.
With 6 words she made me stop and reconsider.

I have been challenged today. Challenged away from advocacy to participation. True participation. The embracing of life.. Beyond all the rhetoric I have been sprouting about living for the now.

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